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If you haven't met Mistress, you won't know her style. She might be friendly and casual or strict and unforgiving. By using a formal tone you cover all bases. Most mistresses like to be treated like queens. Do you want her to feel strong and powerful when she re your message? Then show your humility, politeness and submission with your words. It will start the interaction on the right foot. Of course not.
Use the same attitude here. Mistress may eventually do very naughty things to you in the dungeon, but the first contact should be like a first date. Be on your best behavior. Because there are always more sub males than femme dommes, mistresses often receive lo of s from prospective subs.
This means we're busy, so don't waste our time with the story of your life in the first you ever send. Why are you contacting Mistress? Do you want a session? Do you wish to do domestic servitude? Or are you just offering adoring compliments? Whatever the case, be brief. Say What you want using a small amount of words while still being polite and humble of course! While it's good to keep your first message rather short Max. That takes time and will delay your interaction. A Your name. How will Mistress set you apart from a other slaves? Find a catchy way to call yourself.
No need to use your real name but "naughty boy" is too vague. B Your location or Where you'll travel. Many mistresses travel a lot, so don't assume she's currently where her ad says she's from. C Your fetish interests. Write a basic short list of what you like or think you might like if you're still new to this. D Your request.
What do you want? Explain it briefly. In your fantasies, you may like to act like a brat or naughty slave. Or you may enjoy being humiliated and insulted. But these attitudes should be saved for the dungeon only. Acting up or being "annoying" in the hope that Mistress will get angry and humiliate you via is manipulation. Experienced dommes can recognise this ruse from miles away. Yes she might get annoyed, but that will probably backfire in her ignoring your message or worse: labeling you as a "time waster" and telling all her domme friends to blacklist you too.
As much as most males have a fascination with female nudity, the opposite is not true. Most women don't want to see your manhood before getting to know you. A Mistress will rarely care what your appendage looks like. Even if your fantasy is "small cock humiliation" it still doesn't matter. Your private parts should be kept private until Mistress asks to see them that goes for your butt as well. Before asking Mistress a hundred questions, read her website and blogs.
If you want a session, check her fetish interests. Your answer may already be there and this will again streamline your contact with Her. Also, some mistresses spend a lot of time writing so showing that you've the spent time to read what she's all about is also a of respect and that your intentions are more than just seeking attention. After reading Mistress's profile, website and blogs, you may still have questions. That is fine, but put all your questions in one message. Back and forth one liner messaging is so annoying. If you did your homework, you will know what language Mistress likes to use for contact.
You should be working hard to contact me, not the other way around. Even better, if grammar is not your strength, write your message on a word document so it can catch your run on sentences and confusing grammar. If a Mistress has to decode your message because you have poor language skills, she may see that as a of your laziness. Also, poor use of grammar means it will be harder for her to understand what you want. If your message is too much effort, Mistress might ignore you.
Even with all these rules, there's still space to be yourself. Mistresses like subservient, polite and well spoken subs, but we don't want robots well, maybe for a sci-fi scene yes, but not all the time! So find a way to show a bit of your personality. What's special about you? No need to write your life story, but a little bit can go a long way! Be Creative! To guide you, here is one example of a bad message and How to fix it.
If I have the time, I will add other bad messages on the comments and how to improve them. Ur so hot! Your pics make me hard can i be your slave? I'm very impressed with your photos and profile. You are so stunning and dominant. I live in [city, country]. Do you ever visit here? I'm interested in [fetish list] and would love to serve as your slave. It would be an honor to talk with you further.
What is the most convenient time for you, Goddess? TOP 10 Rules for your 1st contact with a Mistress 1. Use a formal, polite and subservient tone. Be concise: Get to the point. Be precise and inclusive. Do you want Mistress to smile when she re your message? Don't be manipulative. A photo of your penis says "I'm a dick". Most programs have a spell check. USE IT! Xx Dear Mistress, I'm very impressed with your photos and profile. Kalyss Mercury 28 July Kalyss Mercury 7 May Travel, Service.Mistress and sub
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