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There have been many attempts made by the long distance couple to solve the no-sex dilemma, but short of sleeping with other people, there just aren't that many options. It used to be dirty love letters, then it was phone sex.
Even so, just hearing or reading those dirty words and looking at still photos hardly compares to the real thing. Fortunately, technology has brought us the next best thing: via Skype sex or FaceTime sex for you iPhone lovers.
If you haven't tried it yourself yet, chances are you know someone else who has — or at the very least, someone who wants to There's no need for elaborate planning, but at least choose a time when both of you will have at least an hour or so to relax without interruptions from a roommate, work, family, etc. Don't just roll up in sweat pants and weekend hair. Prepare for Skype sex as if you were getting ready for a night of romance in real life.
Guys should consider shaving and wearing something presentable or nothing at all. Ladies should look their best, including makeup and even a little perfume if it gets you in the mood. Dress in something you know your partner will like or try out some new lingerie. As with any other type of sex, if you want to have Skype or FaceTime sex, you have to feel sexy. If possible, avoid fluorescent lighting and go with something with more a yellow tone. Know your body. Note also that Skype sex is more than masturbating — having someone watch you do it adds a whole new level. It can be arousing, but it can also be daunting, so make sure you know exactly what gets you off in a physical way before you try it on camera.
Say it sexy, but don't worry about being clever if that isn't your thing. Even the simplest descriptions go a long way toward making things hotter. Whatever you say, just keep the dialog simple and focus on what turns you on about the situation. Or have one or both of you describe the fantasy situation as it unfolds. It's hard not to be able to have physical contact, but the upside is that it forces you to try new things.
Maybe it's a role-playing fantasy, as I mentioned above, or maybe it's a new toy, such as a dildo or a vibrator. Also, try different positions to ensure your partner's seeing the parts of you that he or she loves the most.
And remember, even if you don't finish with a happy ending, your Skype quickie will ensure that you have one coming to you when you and your honey next get a chance to play things out in real time. Finally — and perhaps most importantly — communicate with your partner! If something worked for you, say so. If it was mind blowing, shout it out.
If things were awkward, talk about it and make an appointment to try again. Skype sex and FaceTime sex are just like any other sex — the options are limitless and entirely up to you. Think of it as an opportunity to take part in your very own porn.
Only in this one, your partner will only have eyes for you. Kimberly Liu is a freshly minted college graduate trying to make something of herself in the grand city of New York. She also writes sometimes. This article was originally published at Kinkly.
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5 Tips For Having Hot Skype Sex With Your Partner In A Long-Distance Relationship